The day my son told me I’d failed him as a father

Paul Morriss
2 min readJun 15, 2024

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I know, so click-baity — right? But true.

Photo by Lala Azizli on Unsplash

I got this text out of the blue one day:

Dad I’m sorry but your fathering failed in one massive way

I braced myself for what came next. Here goes…

You didn’t force me to listen to ok computer

Phew! I mean, I could have given him a list if he was struggling to think of some ways I’d failed. I had to respond though.

The trick is that I got you to listen to it thinking it was your own decision.

He replied:

It is one of the best albums I have ever heard and I’m only on the 5th song. He he

Since that day I’ve been thinking about how parents can not fail their children in similar ways. What are the essential albums that it would be good to force children to listen to?

“According to Apple Music’s Ebro Darden, the criteria were albums that:

  • represented a cultural moment for the artist or genre.
  • were complete thoughts, not just collections of hit songs.
  • thoroughly represent culture in production and lyrics.
  • inspired a generation to want to create more music.
  • represent the BEST in storytelling, musicianship, recording and production.
  • are timeless and reached far beyond the genre categorization.”

Jon worked his way through the albums with an open mind. I haven’t done that, but it’s interesting to hear Jon’s thoughts. What do you think are the essential albums?

Originally published at https://little-bits.paulmorriss.com on June 15, 2024.

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Paul Morriss
Paul Morriss

Written by Paul Morriss

Failing to build my personal brand. Further thoughts available at http://little-bits.paulmorriss.com.

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